
To make this repayment plan work, give it your full commitment. Commit totally to repaying everything and everyone to whom you owe money. Of course, it will take time and won’t be simple, but that is no excuse for not starting.
A 31-year-old man once asked his wise father whether he should go back and finish his college degree. The man was worried that it would take three years and that he would be 34 years old when he finally finished college. His father looked at his son and asked him, “How old will you be in three years if you don’t go?” How old will you be in three years if you don’t commit to repaying your debts? You’ll be three years older and several more dollars in the hole.
aking a commitment to pay everyone back is very significant. If you do it, you will feel better about yourself. It will give you the confidence to call up your creditors and work out a repayment plan. Fear will begin to evaporate and will be replaced by strength. A commitment to keep your word, have integrity, and live up to your responsibilities fosters self-esteem. It is good for the soul.
Commitment is a very powerful thing. Buckminster Fuller (1895–1983) is best known for inventing the geodesic dome, but he was also a prolific author, mathematician, cartographer, speaker, scientist, and inventor. At one point, he had the longest entry ever in the history of Who’s Who.
What many people don’t know about Bucky is that he was a complete failure for much of his life. He was kicked out of Harvard, twice (once for blowing his entire semester’s allowance on an evening with showgirls), had several businesses fail, and was grieving for a daughter he lost to a childhood illness. An unhappy, unknown failure at 30, Buckminster Fuller decided to kill himself.
As he walked to Lake Michigan in the dead of winter, intent on throwing himself in, Fuller realized that his mistake had been selfishness; if he fully committed himself to helping the greatest number of people he could, he could be a success. He vowed on his deceased daughter’s memory to do just that. It was only after making this commitment that he turned his life around and became a lovable genius some dubbed “the da Vinci of the twentieth century.”
W.H. Murray wrote the following in The Scottish Himalayan Expedition:
Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now. You don’t need to change the world; you just need to make a commitment to yourself and for yourself that you are going to repay all your debts.